final punching of life's ticket...

tonight,a dark shadow casted its pall on this family... we lost a sweet person to the final punching to life's ticket... i honestly have been through this "passing on" five different times... every time does not get any easier... we say that the person is "in a better place",and they are,meaning they are not in any pain anymore... however,the people left behind are more heartbroken than people can imagine,because they loved them more than life itself... how do they cope with the heartbreak,and the ache that goes along with it??? if i knew that,i would not be still heartbroken after the five sweet souls punched their final ticket to life,and i am still heartbroken over every single sweet soul that i deeply miss to this day... here is a simple answer to it:you hold on tight to the hurting person,let them mourn,and remind them that your shoulder is bigger than anything that they can imagine,because there will be a time,when they will laugh,and that is important that they know that it will be always there... at that time,we shall remember the good times of their life,and how they shall be always in our hearts... now,it is time to close ranks inside our family,and hold on,folks,because it will be a bumpy ride... to that sweet soul,we shall miss you until we see you again,because their remembrance is still in our hearts every day... every hour... every minute... every second... until then...